Planning a wedding should feel like building your own little universe, not checking off someone else’s list of “must-haves.” The truth? You don’t have to do anything. Want to skip the fancy cake and serve pizza? Do it. Feel like forgoing the bouquet toss for a karaoke jam with your best friends? Go for it. Your wedding should feel like an extension of you—just louder, bolder, and brimming with love.

When you strip away the pressure to follow a “traditional” day, what you’re left with is a celebration that feels like home. Your choices—big and small—reflect what you value most. Maybe that means a backyard ceremony with just your closest crew or setting up a fire pit for s’mores instead of a formal dessert table. Whatever it is, the magic is in doing things that make you feel comfortable and in-the-moment.

People often feel like there’s a “right” way to do a wedding, but trust me, those rules are outdated. The right way is the one that lets you feel present and joyful with the person you love. Plus, a wedding that reflects who you are as a couple will stand out in your memories—and your photos—for years to come. It’s not about perfection; it’s about personality.

Your love story isn’t a cliché, so why should your wedding be? The point isn’t to impress anyone with elaborate traditions that mean nothing to you; it’s to celebrate what makes your relationship unique. Don’t worry about being unconventional—embrace it, laugh through it, and know that every quirk you bring to the day is what makes it authentically yours. Ultimately, a wedding that feels true to you will be so much more memorable. Every part of your day will feel like looking in a mirror that reflects you and your partner’s essence, joy, and quirks. So let’s ditch the stiff traditions and make space for a day that’s relaxed, fun, and completely yours.