Let’s set the scene. You’re scrolling through Instagram, bombarded with the same washed-out beige, overly moody filters, or blinding white highlights that look like a paper factory exploded. Every wedding starts to blur together: the couple staring wistfully into the distance, the muted tones of eucalyptus greens and dusty rose (*internal screaming*)…
Here’s the harsh truth: that look everyone’s obsessing over? It’s a phase, babe, and it’s going to age about as well as your middle school Myspace bio. (Literally fucking cringing at the thought of mine)
Trendy edits don’t stand the test of time because they’re not about you. They’re about fitting into a cookie-cutter mold, one that prioritizes aesthetics over authenticity.
And you, my friend, deserve better than that. Let’s talk about why—and what you should be looking for instead when it comes to your wedding photos.
Your Love Story Isn’t a TikTok Trend
Trends are great for trying out the latest 7Brew drink or deciding which Netflix series to binge (even though, that in itself, I could go on for hours, but stay with me). But your wedding photos? They’re meant to be a time capsule—a way to step back into your memories decades down the road and feel the way you felt on that day.
If your photos look like they were edited through the same beige-and-teal filter every influencer is hawking, how are they supposed to reflect the real, vibrant, messy, beautiful truth of you? Love isn’t one-size-fits-all, and your photos shouldn’t be either.
Sure, that muted, overexposed aesthetic might feel chic right now, but think about it: Do you really want your future dogs asking why your wedding looks like it was held inside a sepia-toned Instagram-reel-coded asylum?
True-to-Color Editing: Keeping It Real (Without Losing the Magic)
Let’s get one thing straight—true-to-color editing doesn’t mean boring. It doesn’t mean bland, and it sure as hell doesn’t mean settling for photos that don’t spark joy (Marie Kondo lovers stand up). What it does mean is staying honest to the hues and tones that were actually there on your big day.
The vibrant greens of the forest where you said your vows. The deep reds of your partner’s favorite suit. The electric orange of the cocktails your bestie spilled during the reception (because, let’s face it, every wedding has at least one good spill).
True-to-color editing honors those shades in all their glory, while still leaving room for creativity. It’s about finding the balance between authenticity and artistry, so your photos reflect not just how your day looked, but how it felt.
Trendy Is Staged. Let’s Get Real.
There’s a pressure—especially in the age of social media—to make everything look “perfect.” To stage the ideal shot, to angle every detail just so, to curate your wedding day as if it’s a spread in Modern Aesthetic Magazine.
But let’s get real: staged moments don’t feel like you. Your wedding isn’t a content factory. It’s a celebration of who you are, quirks and all. It’s the loud laughter during toasts, the teary-eyed hugs with your besties, the joyful chaos of trying to cut the cake with a knife that’s clearly too small.
When you look back on your wedding photos, you shouldn’t see a staged production. You should see yourself. That’s why I focus on capturing the in-between moments: the ones where you’re belly-laughing, sneaking kisses, or letting loose on the dance floor. No filters, no bullshit—just the raw, unfiltered magic of your love.
The Time Capsule You Actually Want
When I hear couples talk about their dream wedding photos, they often use words like genuine, timeless, and personal. But here’s the thing: timeless doesn’t mean trendy, babe. Timeless means creating a capsule that holds all the emotions, colors, and memories of your day without shoving them through the “it” aesthetic of the moment.
Your wedding photos should be an extension of who you are in this exact season of your life—vibrant, bold, a little messy, and 100% real. They should capture the creativity and flair that makes your relationship unique, without feeling like you’re trapped in someone else’s Pinterest board.
Artistry Over Aesthetics
Now, I’m not saying your wedding photos can’t be stunning or creatively composed. Hell, I live for dramatic lighting, playful angles, and capturing you in all your artsy glory. But artistry is about bringing out what’s already there, not forcing something artificial.
Think of it like this: your wedding is a masterpiece in the making. The colors, the laughter, the little imperfections—that’s the magic. My job as your photographer is to amplify that, to frame it in a way that feels cinematic without ever crossing into contrived.
What to Look for in a Photographer (AKA, Why I Might Be Your Person)
So, how do you find a photographer who gets it? Someone who won’t slap a trendy filter on your memories and call it a day? Here’s what to look for:
- An Editing Style That’s Honest but Creative
Look for someone who embraces bold colors, playful shadows, and true-to-life tones. Your photos should look like your day, not a Photoshopped fantasy. - A Focus on Connection
The best photos come from genuine moments, not forced poses. Your photographer should make you feel comfortable enough to let loose and be yourselves, capturing your love in all its quirky, wonderful realness. - A Portfolio That Stands Out
If every photographer’s website looks the same, move on. Find someone whose work feels alive, vibrant, and a little bit wild—someone who makes you say, “Holy shit, that’s exactly how I want to remember us.” - Someone Who Actually Listens, Babe
You want a photographer who doesn’t just hear you but actually gets you. Someone who understands that your wedding isn’t about perfection—it’s about celebration, community, and love.
Your Wedding Photos Should Be As Unique As You Are
At the end of the day, your wedding photos are about so much more than trends or aesthetics. They’re about capturing the messy, beautiful, real story of you.
So, let’s skip the beige filters and cookie-cutter poses. Let’s create something vibrant, bold, and unmistakably yours. Something that feels like a love letter to this moment in your life, not a watered-down version of someone else’s.
If that sounds like the vibe you’re looking for, I’m your person. Let’s chat. Let’s laugh. Let’s make some art that feels like coming home.
Because here’s the truth: trendy edits fade, but the sheer magic of your love? That’s forever.
Want to dive deeper into creating wedding photos that feel like you? Let’s talk! I can’t wait to capture your story, just as you are—messy, vibrant, and perfect in your imperfection. Let’s ditch the trends and make something real.
